Coping with breathlessness
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Coping with breathlessness
Being breathless can be hard to live with and can make you feel very tired. Some days may seem harder than others. But there are things that can help you to cope.
Colds and infections
If you are more breathless than usual there may be an obvious cause. If you are coughing up phlegm or have a temperature, you may have a chest infection. Contact your GP. You may need a course of antibiotics.
Feeling anxious
If you are very anxious, this will probably make you feel more breathless. If you feel panicky, try to slow your breathing. Concentrate on breathing in and out slowly. It may help to learn a relaxation technique. There are lots of books and tapes available on relaxation. You may be able to borrow some from your local library.
Changing how you breathe
Breathing faster and tensing your shoulders make it harder for you to breathe. Try to control your breathing. Think about breathing in slowly through your nose, and breathing out through your mouth. This is almost like doing relaxation exercises.
Making life easier
The full version of this page has practical ideas on how to make life easier for yourself. There are sections on planning ahead to make tasks easier, moving around, eating and drinking, and asking for help with your breathlessness.
Being breathless can be hard to live with and can make you feel very tired and as though everything is a struggle. Some days may seem harder than others. But there are some tips on this page to help you cope.
If you are more breathless than usual and are coughing up phlegm or have a temperature, you may have a chest infection. People with lung cancer can be more prone to these. Contact your GP. You may need a course of antibiotics to clear up any infection. Then your breathing will be easier.
If you are very anxious, this will probably make you feel more breathless. This can be very frightening and make you feel even more anxious. If you feel panicky, try to slow your breathing. Concentrate on breathing in and out slowly.
It may help to try the ideas below in the changing how you breathe section when you are not anxious so that you are confident about using them. It can also help to learn a relaxation technique. There are a lot of books and tapes available. Some support groups have libraries of these you can borrow. Or you may be able to borrow some from your local library.
When you are breathless you may find that
- You are breathing faster
- Your shoulders are tensing up
You may feel that this helps you. But over a long period it can make it harder and more tiring for you to breathe. Try to control your breathing. It can help to think about
- Breathing in slowly through your nose
- Breathing out through your mouth
This is almost like doing relaxation exercises. As you breathe out try to relax your shoulders. It can help to have someone gently massaging or pressing on your shoulders as you do this. With practice you should notice that you are breathing more deeply as well as more slowly.
You can help yourself by thinking ahead. Make sure the things you need at home during the day are easy to get to. And think about what you are going to do beforehand. Here are some ideas you can try out
- Is everything you need downstairs? Try to avoid unnecessary trips up and down
- Can you get to the phone? You may want to have another phone point put in so you don't have to get up every time it rings - or use a cordless phone or a mobile
- Is carrying shopping or washing difficult? Why not try a trolley or bag on wheels to save your energy
- Let your head save your legs! If you have to do some household tasks, plan ahead and get together everything you need before you start
- Pace yourself and allow rest times. You will get more done if you don't try to take on too much and wear yourself out
It can be easier to walk and go up stairs if you use the ideas above in the changing how you breathe section. Try matching your breaths to the steps you take. Breathe in on one step and out on the next couple. Don't rush. It's better to go upstairs slowly than rush up and have to stop and recover at the top.
Chewing and swallowing can be hard if you are feeling breathless. Try
- Lots of small meals instead of a few large ones
- Taking smaller mouthfuls
- Avoiding foods that are difficult to chew
- Keep a drink to hand to sip through the day
Remember - you can lose a lot of fluid in your breath. Especially if you are breathing through your mouth. Make sure you drink plenty of fluids. Being dehydrated can make saliva and phlegm stickier. And can also make it difficult to chew and swallow.
Many hospitals now have specialist clinics for people who have difficulty with breathing. Ask your doctor or nurse if they know of any in your area. You will be taught the techniques here and much more about coping with breathlessness. Or if there isn't a special clinic, you could have a chat with a physiotherapist or nurse who specialises in helping people with breathing. Talking things through may help to solve a few problems.
There is more information about breathing problems in our section on coping physically with cancer which you may find helpful.
Our lung cancer organisations page gives details of people who can give information about coping with breathlessness. Some organisations can put you in touch with a cancer support group. Our lung cancer reading list has information about books and leaflets on coping with lung cancer and its symptoms.
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