Coping with ovarian cancer
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Coping with ovarian cancer
It can be very difficult coping with a diagnosis of cancer both practically and emotionally. You may feel very upset and confused at first.
As well as coping with the fear and anxiety that a diagnosis of cancer brings, you have to work out how to manage practically. There may be money matters to sort out. Who do you tell you have cancer? There may be children or grandchildren to consider.
The ‘coping with cancer’ section of CancerHelp UK contains lots of information you may find helpful including information about counselling, financial issues and much more.
It can be very difficult coping with a diagnosis of cancer, both practically and emotionally. At first, you are likely to feel very upset, frightened and confused. Or that things are out of your control. It is very important to get the right information about your type of ovarian cancer and how it is best treated. People who are well informed about their illness and treatment are more able to make decisions and cope with what happens.
You may have heard on television or in the papers about ovarian cancer running in families and wonder whether this is so in your case. And you may be worried about a daughter or granddaughter getting ovarian cancer in the future. Most ovarian cancers are not hereditary. But it is clear that the women in some families do have a higher chance of developing this type of cancer. Look at the screening for ovarian cancer section of CancerHelp UK for more about who is at risk and what screening could be possible for other members of your family.
Ovarian cancer and its treatment may cause physical changes in your body. These changes can be very difficult to cope with and may affect the way you feel about yourself. Such changes can affect your self esteem and the way you relate to other people, especially close family and friends. Another problem you may have to cope with is feeling very tired and lethargic a lot of the time, especially for a while after treatment or if the cancer is advanced. There is information about fatigue and cancer and treating cancer fatigue in the section on coping physically with cancer.
If you are having a sexual relationship, one or all of these changes may affect your sex life. There is information about changes in your sex life in this section of CancerHelp UK.
Some of the treatments for ovarian cancer can cause an early menopause in some women, which means you can no longer have children. This can be very difficult to cope with. It may help you to read our information about early menopause after ovarian cancer.
As well as coping with the fear and anxiety that a diagnosis of ovarian cancer brings, you may also have to work out how to manage practically. There may be money matters to sort out. You may need information about financial support, such as benefits, sick pay and grants. Who do you tell that you have cancer? And how do you find the words? You may also have children to think about. CancerHelp UK has information about talking to people about your cancer and how and what to tell children. One lady told us about telling her son she had cancer
"I waited until I knew more about my diagnosis and treatment before telling my 10 year old son. My husband and I worked on our instinct and what we knew of our son to help us do this. We talked to him when I was at home before chemotherapy treatment. We explained that I was poorly and needed some treatment to help me get better."
Just try to remember that you do not have to sort everything out at once. It may take some time to deal with each issue. Do ask for help if you need it though. It is likely that your doctor or specialist nurse will know who you can contact to get some help - they can put you in touch with people specially trained in supporting those with cancer. These people are there to help and want you to feel that you have support. So use them if you feel you need to.
The coping with cancer section of CancerHelp UK has lots of helpful information. There are sections on
- Your feelings
- How you can help yourself
- Who else can help you?
- Mortgages, pensions, loans and insurance, including travel insurance
If you would like more detailed information about coping with ovarian cancer, contact one of the cancer information organisations in our ovarian cancer help and support page. They will be happy to help. They often have free factsheets and booklets they can send to you. They may also be able to put you in touch with a support group. There is also a page of ovarian cancer online links and an ovarian cancer reading list.
You can also find details of counselling organisations, that can tell you more about counselling and help you find sources of emotional support in your area.
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